A live, Torah-based program with Chany Rosengarten · Reviewed by Rebbetzins and Mechanchos · 7 years · 3,500+ women

Happy Days.

Days you feel exactly like yourself. You like yourself. You’re in awe of yourself. And your husband, your children, your friends love you, too.

Because the best thing you can bring to your marriage is your real self.

Join Woman of Valor

Enrollment is open for the live cohort

Chany Rosengarten
  • 15 live classes
    Thursdays, 10:30am ET
  • 7 Q&A sessions
    On Zoom and by phone
  • In-person lunch in Monsey, NY
    Retreat option
  • Recordings available
    until Pesach

Sweety, you’ve been around the block.

  • So you’ve taken the intimacy course.
  • And used your super sweet “feminine” voice.
  • You’ve worked on your middos, your emotions, your parenting.
  • You already see your child for his highest self, and your husband for the mashpia.
  • You’ve Laura Doyled your way into getting him to fix the mailbox.
  • You’ve made major changes.

All you ever wanted was happy days. Days you feel like the best version of yourself. Days you love yourself. Days you’re loved and connected to the people who matter most.

The happiness you want? It’s available to you. Every day. Every day can be a happy day.

And it doesn’t come from working, changing, and blaming yourself.


You’ve been around the block, so you know these by heart:

  • You say something to him, then rethink it a hundred times. “It’s because I mentioned his mother.” “I should’ve said it nicer, or sandwiched it with a compliment.”
  • He says something careless, and you’re done. For the day. Maybe the week. It’s hard to get back to normal.
  • You tell your sister you’ll watch her kids, because you’re too overwhelmed to do anything yourself.
  • You hear the car pulling into the driveway and get busy looking busy.
  • Your shvigger says something nasty, and you laugh and say thank you, because you’re easygoing like that.

Meanwhile, you wonder why

  • When he asks how you want to celebrate your anniversary, you say “whatever you want.”
  • You used to cry during Shmoneh Esrei. Now when things really hurt, you can’t squeeze out a single tear. “Did I turn to stone?”
  • You want him to sit near you on the couch, and instead your angry voice says, “You never put your phone down.”
  • You’ve answered a hundred phone calls, stocked the freezer, took your son to the orthopedist — and nobody will ever know what you did today. Nobody.

 Sweety, you’ve forgotten what it’s like to be you. You’ve forgotten how to have happy days. 

Don’t get me wrong. A little teaspoon of mevater? It’s like baking soda.

Your life, your marriage

It was supposed to be delicious

Flour
Being nourishing to your own needs.
Eggs
Being the beautiful woman you already are.
Oil
Loving your life.
Baking soda — one teaspoon of mevater
Mevater makes the whole thing rise. But use it sparingly, or the results aren’t edible.
A pinch of salt
A little never hurt anyone. A handful ruins the dish.

Sweety, your life and your marriage were supposed to be delicious. And sugar sweet.

You get to be loved exactly as you are. In awe of you. In love with you. Licking up the joy of living as you. With all ten fingers.

So what is Woman of Valor, actually?

The Woman’s Way to love, joy, and connection. The Delicious way to Happy Days.

Woman of Valor is not another marriage course and it’s not abstract information.

It’s an experience where you get to be you. It’s 15 weeks of understanding why it hurts, how you react, what you need, how to take care of yourself, and a new way to trust yourself. You stop being scared of mistakes. You start having compassion and humor. And you really like yourself.

Once you stop saying “I’m so sorry for being me,” and you start saying “I understand why I did what I did,” things happen.

Things like your husband calling you from work more often, or buying you a coffee on a random Tuesday. Things like you humming a song, or laughing with your entire heart. What used to feel confusing starts to feel neatly sorted. What used to feel embarrassing becomes dignified.

Created and led by Mrs. Chany Rosengarten, Woman of Valor is an elevated way towards Happy Days. Over ten seasons, Chany has led hundreds of women through Woman of Valor and given them not just a delicious marriage, but importantly, themselves.

  • I see how the same things that happened in the past in our marriage that stirred massive blowouts on my part, are now just normal things I calmly mention to my husband, or even laugh about.
  • I literally wake up every morning now full of love and excitement. There has just been love and happiness in the atmosphere of our home. It makes the world of a difference, because now no matter what else is happening in our lives, it’s done with love.
  • My husband killed a water bug today. You probably think this is silly. For me, it felt like I’m married! In the past, I would just put on my big-girl shoes and do it myself… But I was finally able to say, ‘I’m married. I have a man in the house. And I can ask him.’
  • For the first time, I realized that I don’t need to hold on to my anger to prove that I’m worthy… The next day I realized somewhere in the middle of the day that hey, I don’t feel angry. This was a first for me.

What we don’t do

Change who you are.

Sweety!! Hashem made you gorgeous, glorious, fabulous, driven, with just the right amount of fire to move mountains. Who are we to mess with that?

Swallow your pain and move on.

You’ve swallowed enough. It’s time to digest it instead of having heartburn.

Decide whose fault it is.

We don’t make you the problem. We don’t make him the problem, either. This isn’t a blame game, it’s a life together that makes sense and works.

Follow the steps. Use the script.

This isn’t ballet. It’s marriage.
It’s you and your husband and real life.

Be mevater for shalom.

A little mevater, like a little baking soda, makes the whole thing rise. But shalom also means whole.  You get to be wholehearted. 

Suffer in silence a little longer.

Not another day, dear. One day of pain was already too much.

Give more, hoping it changes someone else.

You already give beautifully.
That was never the missing piece.

Add more self-improvement to the list.

You’ve worked on yourself enough. This isn’t more homework.

INSTEAD, HERE’S WHAT WE DO

I let you look in the mirror and see her.

That gorgeous, glowing girl you are. But first, we windex off the toothpaste mark someone once smeared there that says “meshugena.”

I show you how to meet yourself.

You’ll be shy at first, very normal. Then you, your heart, your mind, your soul become such good friends, it’s a party.

I tell you which day is garbage day.

That old guilt? It’s gotta go. That ratty feeling about yourself? Time to organize it out.

You trust yourself to set the table.

Fresh flowers, fine china, cozy napkins. He’ll come. And you know who else sits down to the candlelight? You. It’s time you both delight in each other, for real.

A FEW HONEST QUESTIONS, DEAR

Do you mind your own company — or do you go “Her? Not her!” when you see you have an hour with yourself?

Does your husband look at you like you are Hashem’s personal gift to him? Or does he put you on the liability side?

Do you tense up when he walks through the door, or do you feel, ah! He's here?

Do you ever ask yourself “is this… normal?” but you don’t want to ask stupid, incriminating questions?


What Happens — Over the Last Seven Years

Over the last eight years, the woman who joined the Woman of valor program reported a newfound love with her husband, her children, even Hashem… and most importantly, herself. 

She fell in love with the woman she is.

She became compassionate, honest and appreciative of herself.

She started to soak up compliments and love like bread sops up soup.

She felt younger, aliver, and really happy. She even started to feel healthier.

She said things like “I wish every woman knows this.”

And she started to enjoy her marriage more than ever before.

And her marriage got so much better than ever before, almost like a side effect.

Is that something you’d like for yourself, too?


And What It Didn't Come From

It didn’t come from a new method.

It didn’t come because she did her homework.

Or followed instructions, in the heat of the moment.

She didn’t second-guess how she’s done things until now.

And she didn’t change her husband, either.

In Woman of Valor we don’t make you work harder. In fact, if you do nothing other than come, you get results. All you need to do is show up.


We have a proven way of navigating life that’s more like a GPS than a tightrope. Whatever road you’re on, you still get to go home, kick off your shoes, and relax on your couch. Made the biggest mistake of your life? The recalculating feature gets you there two minutes faster.

You’ll enjoy the results of Woman of Valor literally within the first couple of weeks from when we start. 

WHAT YOU GET

15
LIVE CLASSES WITH CHANY, IN THE ZOOM ROOM

7
STANDALONE Q&A DISCUSSION SESSIONS

∞
QUESTIONS ANSWERED INSIDE EVERY SINGLE CLASS

You literally sit with Chany Rosengarten, live, and learn directly with her. Each live class includes a question and answer portion, so you never stay with any confusion. The seven standalone Q&A sessions let you go deep and enjoy a robust, personalized discussion.

THE FIFTEEN CLASSES

Program? Course?
Class? Doesn’t even
begin to do it justice.

01

It’s Okay. You’re Okay.

SAFETY

Put down the stress of holding everything together. Learn how to take really good care of yourself and feel safe.

“So if only for class 1, and always being able to go back to that ‘it’s ok, I’m ok’ and just give myself that hug — only for that alone, it was worth doing this course.”
02

Your Precious Heart

PAIN

Look at the wounds you’ve carried with love instead of judgment and understand your journey.

“Class 2 gave me permission to see my pain, and from that place it was very very powerful for me to let go of the pain.”
03

Pain, Meet Healing

GRIEF & HEALING

Learn how grief actually works and how to move on with your life.

“I used to judge myself and blame myself why I don’t feel happy. When I learned to grieve in the pain class, I saw what was blocking me so I can tap into happiness.”
04

Take Off the Snowsuit

REAL CONNECTION

Discover your protections and learn how to connect as the real you.

“Class 4 was like the switch of a lightbulb. Like, wow. The clarity of that!”
05

The Empowered Feminine

POWER

Discover the kind of feminine power that doesn’t push, chase, or control. 

“I always had to prove that I can do everything myself. And it was such a game changer for me that people wanted to give and I was able to receive.”
06

I Get to Need

NEEDS

Learn to understand, honor, and appreciate your needs without guilt.

“I knew everybody else's needs, my husband's needs, my kids' needs... I didn't know my own needs. Once I was able to tune in and see what my needs are, it gave me back my life. It really gave me back my life.”
07

Ask Like a Queen

THE QUEEN’S METHOD

A compassionate and powerful way to ask for what you want.

“I would say it's worth taking the course just for this class. It’s a gift that it priceless. It's life-changing in a way that it affirms just how worthy you are. Hashem does listen to your needs and will send it your way”
08

Turn Your Light On

CONFIDENCE

Stop dimming yourself and find your voice and energy.

“When you come from Owning the experience everything shifts.!”
09

Sweet Love

LOVE

Discover what makes love grow and create more sweetness in your marriage.

“This class gave me the feeling that Hashem loves us. Hashem created us the way we are and the way we're supposed to be. Hashem loves you and Hashem is looking at you with so much love. That was very, very powerful.”
10

Secure in Love

ATTACHMENT

Understand your attachment patterns and feel steady in your relationships.

“It made me understand myself to a very deep level, what my needs are coming from. That was very, very powerful for me.”
11

Ahhh... Peace

PEACE

Learn how to experience real peace inside yourself and bring it into your home.

"I can be sitting by a lake and thinking, hey, I have so much to do, and it doesn't let me enjoy the moment. So I've learned to enjoy the moment where I am at any given time"
12

Honor

SELF-FORGIVENESS & DIGNITY

Put down the shame and walk with your head held high.

“first I was able to see and honor myself within my limitations, but what it did to me even more was that I was able to look at the next person and honor them for who they are with their limitations, and that was very, very powerful for me"
13

We Fought. Now What?

REPAIR

Learn what to do after a fight so conflict doesn’t feel scary.

“the normalcy of a fight is what's very profound for me, conflict arises in every marriage, and it doesn't define the marriage.”
14

More Fun, Please

FUN

Bring more play, pleasure, and laughter into your life.

“I went with a friend of mine to the park before Purim, and there was a little bench to sit and play music, and I just danced... nobody saw me, but whoever did, they must have been smiling. I was just having fun.”
15

Woman of Valor

HUMILITY, HOME & THE JEWISH WOMAN

Understand the depth of your role in creating a home filled with Shechina.

“I love that, because that gives me permission to just be, not because of all the things that I do. And honestly, I didn't know what that meant when I started. Permission to be? But what it really means is what our role and our essence is”

The Sisterhood

How rare is it to meet intelligent, creative, mature women who are open to the curiosities of life — and also share their heart?


The in-person lunch. The discussions. The phone line. It’s all just part of what happens when you meet a group of women you can’t get enough of.


Woman of Valor sisters together
HEAR IT FROM THEM

Women of Valor,
in their own voices.

I felt it all back from my husband. · My life is MINE. · I wish every woman knows this. · I almost fainted. · I feel so crazy loved. · I took the class twice, and signed up a third time. · I felt it all back from my husband. · My life is MINE. · I wish every woman knows this. · I almost fainted. · I feel so crazy loved. · I took the class twice, and signed up a third time. ·
IN THEIR OWN WORDS
“
My life is MINE.
“
My husband called me and said 'I miss you.' I almost fainted.
GITTY
“
I felt it all back from my husband! What did I do to get this?
“
The way we achieve connection is to connect to ourselves.
CHAVY
“
I’ve come to know and appreciate myself without the guilt.
“
"I took the class twice, and I signed up for a third time.
SHIRA
“
I have a renewed confidence, with people respecting me, wanting to be around me, and reaching out to me.
“
We are a much happier household.
BAILY
ABOUT CHANY ROSENGARTEN
Chany Rosengarten

Seven years. Three
and a half thousand
women. And counting.

Chany Rosengarten is a wife and mother of four based in Monsey, NY, and the bestselling author of The Boundary Is You and Promise Me Jerusalem.


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HOURS OF TRAINING DELIVERED

50+
COURSES RUN

26
RETREATS

3,500+
WOMEN IMPACTED
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There’s more to Woman of Valor.

Q&A Sessions

$2,100 value — 7 sessions, $300 each

Group coaching, live, with Chany. Ask anything — not just what’s covered in class, but what’s actually going on in your life right now. You get answers. You also get the relief of hearing someone else ask the question you didn’t think you could say out loud.

“This is the only place I know of where you can really ask anything, and there’s no judgment.”

“You get to ask everything, feel safe, and get your own questions validated by hearing everyone else’s.”

The Sisterhood Lunch

$650 value

An in-person, guided mini-retreat experience with meditation, sharing, singing and delicious food. Women leave with the kind of friendships they didn’t know they could have.

Community Forum

$900 value

A group of women doing this same work, growing together, showing up for each other. You’re never doing this alone.

That’s over $3,650 in bonuses alone.

Woman of Valor

$350 × 6
SIX MONTHLY PAYMENTS
PAY MONTHLY
$1,950
PAID IN FULL
SAVE $150
PAID IN FULL
Live cohort · Thursdays, 10:30am ET · on Zoom · maximum 250 women per cohort

Optional add-on: The International Retreat

Starting at $3,500 · limited to 20 spots · open to enrolled participants only

Not included in Woman of Valor. Available separately, only to women already inside the program.

“These retreats are like two years of therapy, done in a fun and loving way, without it feeling like work.” — Devoiry

“I felt wrapped in a loving embrace for three days.” — Faigy

Woman of Valor International Retreat
Chany only takes as many women into the programme as she can personally care for, answer, and meet. Get in before the maximum is reached — only 250 women join this live cohort. Every woman gets personal attention.
Woman of Valor has been offered once a year. We’re working on a recorded edition to accommodate more women in future, which means we may be offering recordings instead of live classes. We suggest getting in now, while the group is live, contained, and has Chany’s full attention.
IF YOU’RE AFRAID, “WHAT IF IT’S NOT FOR ME?”

Two weeks. No
questions asked.

You get two weeks from our first class to say “you know what? I’m out” — and we’ll give you your money back.

Several hundred women in, with literally hundreds of stories of Happy, happy days, we can only say: try Woman of Valor. Thank us later. And don’t be afraid. Not for you? No problem. That’s what our money back guarantee is for.

FREQUENTLY ASKED
When do we start? −

Our live classes start on DateOct 29. Every Class happens every Thursday at 10:30am ET. Q&A sessions are every other Monday at 9:00 pm ET starting Nov 2.

What’s the time commitment? +

We recommend 2 hours per week. There is no homework outside of class.

Does it have a haskama? +

Yes, the teachings are Torah-based and have been reviewed by esteemed Rebbetzins and Machanchos.

Will this help my situation? +

Woman of Valor has helped women in all sorts of unique and difficult situations.

Will we talk about the unspokens? +

We cover everything, including intimacy and challenges.

I’ve tried so many things already. Why would this be different? +

Everything you tried before was a beautiful way of loving yourself. Woman of Valor is the only experience built on a deep, spiritual understanding of what actually makes a marriage happy. Alumni tell me this very often: they tried everything and exhausted the biggest experts. Nothing they’d done before compared.

“My therapist told me, what Chany did for you in one week, I couldn’t accomplish in seventeen months.” — Sheva.

What if the real problem is him? +

You’ll start to see something shift in him, too, even though he’s not the one doing the work. It happens more than you’d think.

Do I have to speak up or show up at events? +

Not at all. You can participate as much or as little as you want. Come live, listen to recordings, speak up or submit your questions privately. You get to stay anonymous. There is no pressure to share anything at all.

What if I miss a live class? +

You’ll have the recordings until Pesach. Listen whenever it works for you, on Zoom or by phone, and keep up in the way that works with your life.

Is this for me if my marriage is basically good? +

Absolutely. Woman of Valor isn’t only for women with difficult marriages. It’s for any woman who wants to grow as herself, in her marriage, with her relationships, and in her life. Nothing is off the table, and you don’t need to have a “problem” to want more.

Is This You?

You’ve already tried.
So why are you still here?

It’s not your fault. It’s not because you didn’t do it well. You’ve done enough.

And that’s why Woman of Valor exists.

This is for you if:


You’ve worked on yourself already, but you’re feeling stuck.

You’re ready to fall in love with yourself.

You’re ready to have your husband love and appreciate you as you are.

You are willing to enjoy life.

You want more closeness, affection, lightheartedness and fun.

Other people’s limitations affect you and you want to be free.

You give a lot, and wonder, “But what about me?”

You want to know for sure what you want, need, and how to get it.

You want to trust yourself instead of doubting yourself.

Your life is ok. You know it can be happier. You want Happy days.

This is not for you if:


You’re looking for a method to change your husband.

You want someone to tell you he’s the problem or even that you are.

You want a formula for exactly what a “good wife” should say and do.

You’re looking for information only. Woman of Valor is about things actually changing.

You genuinely feel good being you, good in your relationships, and you’re not hungry for more.

You can’t spare the time each week to listen to the classes.

WHERE DOES WOMAN OF VALOR TAKE YOU?

To you.
In awe with you.
In love with you.
In connection with the people who mean
the most to you. 

Giving you Happy Days. 

  JOIN WOMAN OF VALOR
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